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Baby Love :: 1594489432
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| From the bestselling author whom Time magazine hails as one of the leaders of her generation, an insightful, moving, and entertaining memoir of pregnancy and the decision to conceive a child after years of uncertainty. Like many women her age, Rebecca Walker was brought up to be skeptical of motherhood. A young woman's future was limitless, their mothers' generation told them. A child could rob one of independence, economic freedom, professional advancement, and just about everything else worth having. But all the empowerment and reproductive choice offered to this generation, Walker now realizes, may actually have led to a new kind of struggle. For fifteen years Walker recognized a persistent yearning to have a baby but feared actually choosing to do it. As a result, she almost missed what she now knows to be the single most meaningful experience of her life. In Baby Love, Rebecca Walker tells the story of her pregnancy: not just the physical evolution, but also the emotional and intellectual transformation from ambivalence to certainty to unconditional love. It's the story of the birth of her son, as well as the tale of a generation-a wise, thought-provoking, and above all engaging memoir by a writer who has proven herself to be an important voice of her era. Editorial Descriptions are usually submitted by the manufacturers, publishers and authors. Contact us if you are one of them, and wish to change the above description. |
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Author: Guest This is vulnerable, tender, scared, brave, passionate and absolutely fierce book. There's a heat and intensity that smokes up the pages. I actually don't think it's a book solely for mothers. I think fathers, or potential fathers, can learn a great deal from Baby Love. I know I did.
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Author: Guest I was drawn to Rebecca Walker's pregnancy memoir because I find myself suddenly quite ambivalent about motherhood. While I've always thought I would have children and have never really imagined adulthood without them, I recently came to the conclusion that I could also have a happy, fulfilling life if I did NOT have a child.
This book shows a major shift in Rebecca - B.C. (before child) to A.C. (after child). During the first half of the book, Rebecca B.C. and I didn't have much in common. I'm pretty "generic" or typical in that I would probably never consider going with a doula and midwife over the best OB/GYN I could find in my city. I used to live in San Francisco so as I was reading I kept thinking, "Why isn't she going to one of the Cal-Pacific or UCSF hospitals?"
However, it was fascinating to read about pregnancy from Rebecca's perspective and to see her 180 degree change of heart - from fantasizing about and planning *her* birthing experience to being solely concerned with the health and safety of her child. It was educational and enlightening to experience pregnancy in an alternative way than how I will in my own life and then, in the end, realize that moms-to-be - no matter who they are - probably have more in common than not.
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Author: Guest I found this book to have a refreshing honesty about it that is uncommon of books in this genre. In this memoir, Walker reflects on her experiences during pregnancy. She tells us about the thoughts she is having without holding back, even though some thoughts are controversial. I suppose that those thoughts can strike a cord in some, but to me, they are what made this book so powerful.
There is a clear transformation that Walker makes as her baby grows inside her. It's a unique experience, and while your life and thinking may not mirror Walker's 100%, Baby Love leaves you with something real to think about and to discuss with your friends and loved ones.
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Author: Guest As a devoted reader of "momoirs" and a fan of Walker's previous work, I bought this book last week and hungrily devoured it's personal, powerful words. I found her candor refreshing and illuminating as she gave voice to feelings that many have but don't share. Though her evolution through her pregnancy was different from my own (I was never really ambivalent), I found solace and affirmation in many chapters. And her clean, precise writing was a joy to read.
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Author: Guest The narcissim, banality and lack of intelligent thought in this book is simply stunning. I am a new mother, and I cannot fathom how this book would have been useful to me during pregnancy; certainly not in retrospect. Because I also share a lot of Walker's racial/sexual/class/political experience I bought this immediately. I was deeply offended by a lot of her claims about feminism and what she insinuates about lesbian vs. heterosexual parenting, but truly jaw-dropping is her assertion about biological vs. non-biological parenting. She is so unable to get past herself, and so unable to recognize that her first stab at "parenting" was more playing house with an immature rocker and less the stuff of intentional motherhood. Perhaps that is part of what undermines the bond with her son that she then goes on to universalize. The revelations about the breach with her mother are frankly embarassing, and again, feel self-serving--like a desperate stab to hook a readership that she can't otherwise win and hold.
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