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 Social Intelligence: The New Science of Human Relationships :: 055338449X
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Emotional Intelligence was an international phenomenon, appearing on the New York Times bestseller list for over a year and selling more than five million copies worldwide. Now, once again, Daniel Goleman has written a groundbreaking synthesis of the latest findings in biology and brain science, revealing that we are “wired to connect” and the surprisingly deep impact of our relationships on every aspect of our lives.
Far more than we are consciously aware, our daily encounters with parents, spouses, bosses, and even strangers shape our brains and affect cells throughout our bodies—down to the level of our genes—for good or ill. In Social Intelligence, Daniel Goleman explores an emerging new science with startling implications for our interpersonal world. Its most fundamental discovery: we are designed for sociability, constantly engaged in a “neural ballet” that connects us brain to brain with those around us.
Our reactions to others, and theirs to us, have a far-reaching biological impact, sending out cascades of hormones that regulate everything from our hearts to our immune systems, making good relationships act like vitamins—and bad relationships like poisons. We can “catch” other people’s emotions the way we catch a cold, and the consequences of isolation or relentless social stress can be life-shortening. Goleman explains the surprising accuracy of first impressions, the basis of charisma and emotional power, the complexity of sexual attraction, and how we detect lies. He describes the “dark side” of social intelligence, from narcissism to Machiavellianism and psychopathy. He also reveals our astonishing capacity for “mindsight,” as well as the tragedy of those, like autistic children, whose mindsight is impaired.
Is there a way to raise our children to be happy? What is the basis of a nourishing marriage? How can business leaders and teachers inspire the best in those they lead and teach? How can groups divided by prejudice and hatred come to live together in peace?
The answers to these questions may not be as elusive as we once thought. And Goleman delivers his most heartening news with powerful conviction: we humans have a built-in bias toward empathy, cooperation, and altruism–provided we develop the social intelligence to nurture these capacities in ourselves and others.Editorial Descriptions are usually submitted by the manufacturers, publishers and authors. Contact us if you are one of them, and wish to change the above description. |
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Author: Guest
At times, a bit heavy on the social science but overall, a good book. Goleman's analysis of the healythcare system is spot-on in describing how the training system essentially blanches out empathy, how the system treats patients as "things" instead of people. Anyone who has been in the hospital can likely relate to this.
His main point is that connections and relationships matter. This sounds fundamental but is easy to overlook in today's isolated, atomized societies where many folks don't know their next door neighbors.
An effective presentation on the importance of social connections....
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Author: Guest
I generally read Daniel Goleman's books because, to me, they contain a great deal of sense. This book is no exception.
Whether this is new science or not, the reality is that our connectedness with each other is important to both the way we interact and the (often subconscious) assumptions we make underlying those interactions. Some of what is written in this book may seem obvious, but in the context of the electronic media we increasingly use to connect with each other there are new social issues to explore.
I recommend this book as a starting point to those managing and interacting with people in an electronic age and as an adjunct to Dr Goleman's earlier works. While this can be read as a standalone book, I believe that the best learning value will accrue from reading this book in conjunction with Dr Goleman's earlier work on emotional intelligence.
Jennifer Cameron-Smith
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Author: Guest
Goleman is adept at sounding impressive, but this book contains little of substantive value. It seems designed to confirm the average person's existing beliefs rather than to educate. He often mentions research of marginal relevance using unnecessary technical jargon in ways that sound superficially authoritative.
The subject of the book might be better described as social skills rather than intelligence.
One example of how the book annoyed me was this jab at a strawman: "to the great surprise of those who believe genes alone determine behavior".
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Author: Guest
I've listened to the audio book at least 5 times. I will listen to it in the very near future. Each time I listen I pick up another piece of good information. There's not enough room in the review window to do this book justice. If everyone were aware of the subtleties of human communication the world would be a better place
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Author: Guest
If you've ever wondered how your emotions connect you to others, this book will help you understand exactly how connected we all really are.
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