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The Wonder of Girls : Understanding the Hidden Nature of Our Daughters :: 0743417038
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| In The Wonder of Girls, Michael Gurian aims to bring us new insights into the lives of our daughters in much the same way he attempted to open up the lives of adolescent males in The Wonder of Boys. While many of the chapters read like lessons in biology, plenty of parents will find useful tidbits and reflections from this father of two. Gurian emphatically agrees with Deborah Sichel's (Women's Moods) idea of "A woman's biology is the cornerstone of her mental health." He elaborates on this theory throughout his discussion on the physical changes in childhood and adolescence. This concept certainly holds some validity, but there's a fine line from here to "biology is destiny." Some readers may find Gurian crosses that line with his claims of "brain pruning" and insistence about hormones: "they don't just change a girl into a woman, they are, to a great extent, the woman herself." Others find his recommendations on hormonal treatments to be a literal lifesaver, and the book is peppered with positive anecdotes from his own life and families encountered in his training sessions. Important issues like self-esteem, eating disorders, and sexual experimentation are all addressed, along with the role of the father and "the absolute sanctity of motherhood." Gurian offers a somewhat narrow path as a guide through your daughter's adolescence, but if nothing else, this book will provide a solid background in the physical aspects of her growth. --Jill Lightner Editorial Descriptions are usually submitted by the manufacturers, publishers and authors. Contact us if you are one of them, and wish to change the above description. |
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Author: Guest What is up with people? I am stay-home mother, a very independent soul, and have an education background in early and elementary education. i found this book to be wonderful. i have referred it to all of my friends. i learned not only so much about my daughter and our relationship but also about myself and my relationships growing up. It is a book written with great insight from a father with girls and an extensive research and education background and a wife with the same. It is also approached from a standpoint from mostly biological research and parallels in cross-cultures. A must read!
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Author: Guest As a young woman I was appauled by Gurian's lack of respect for
women as human beings.What makes me the most furious is his
shadowy writing which can lead a young woman to think she is
only worth something if she squishes herself to allow the
boys and men to take the lead in life.The resounding message is
girls and women are potentially inferior and cannot because of
our hormones make important contributions to society beyond
traditional roles.I don't remember ever being taken over by
hormones and rendered down to a emotional bundle of primative
chemical reactions he believes all females to be.
I agree with posters about this bridge brain foolishness.Gurian
is a master at twisting words around and you have to read his
books being mindfull of his tricks.His book is full of agenda.
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Author: Guest Any sound psychologist would want to "shape" the lives of girls
as well as boys,to shape them into adults,but this writer wants
us to see girls and women as eternal children,who need over
protection,never need to face real challenges,or real life.
He doesn't seem to realize many girls need coraling in not only
boys.Instead he sets up a system where expectations are low for
girls,so parents might put less effort into a girl's education,
aspirations and talents.Speaking of talents,he believes females
and males have very distinct differences in the talent pool.
Males analyical,females emotional intellence and verbal.
How can a parent help their girl along if they believe she doesn't or shouldn't excell in hard science and maths.
His obvious mysogamy is only too noticable,he doesn't want girls
to excell or even try their hand in areas he feels are more
easily understood by boys.
I have never read such a harmful book in my life.This psychobable will only prove how he is determined to work against
females and trap them in small areas of achievement.
Poor book,poorly written,works off of spotty brain research and
sterotypes.
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Author: Guest Don't bother buying 'the wonder of girls,borrow it from a friend cause it will only make a turn around the office with many a snicker.I couldn't think of a girl I grew up with including myself who needed constant reassurance or had more
trouble with math than boys.I agree with the other review about we grow our own brains and make connections.Infact,research
shows if you give any child a chance at spatial tasks,the child
improves.Girls often are given dolls .,so how can a girl
develope spatial ability playing with a doll? Go fig!Gurian
doesn't tell the reader anything about experience and environment ~ instead he is vocal about fixed brain function which of course leaves a child in a narrow subgroup.Girls are all lumped into one.I wouldn't let your daughter read this book,'it might give her a bad case of low self~esteem and leave her wondering about herself as a woman.Gurian wants women in
second place at best.Teach your daughter to believe in herself not some pop psychology from a questionable author bent on messing with her success.
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Author: Guest I see little difference between this book and
"Boys And Girls Learn Differently" It's the same bunk minus
the boys.Gurian makes it sound like it's a waste of time to
nuture your girl's math and science ability because in the
future it might cause her to be overwhelmed and burn out
mentally.He also believes boys are more focused and problem
oriented than girls,while girls are more able to multi task.
This is a load for a female who is poor at multi tasking and
a load for boys who are good at it but poor at focusing.His
expectations for girls are not much more than to be pretty,
multi task and make babies early in life before your hormones
go through the change.What he's saying is,if you are a girl
you shouldn't excell or be adventurous in your life because
it might take away from your already limited mental resourses as a female.
Conclusion is,he's afraid of females and does not want them to
excell in life,he's afraid maybe they will excell him to the
extent that his huge ego will be crushed.
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